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The Invisible Struggle: Energy, Attention, Motivation, Confidence and Shame in Adult ADHD

Nov 11, 2024
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For adults with ADHD, the journey to wellbeing is often paved with misunderstanding and self-doubt. We're all familiar with the classic symptoms - difficulty focusing, impulsivity, disorganization. But what about the less visible, yet equally impactful, aspects of ADHD? I'm talking about the constant battle to regulate energy levels, maintain motivation, and navigate the complex web of emotions that come with this neurodevelopmental disorder.

As someone with ADHD, I know firsthand how exhausting it can be to manage my energy throughout the day. It's like playing a never-ending game of whack-a-mole, trying to keep my attention focused on the task at hand. Research has shown that individuals with ADHD often struggle with arousal regulation, leading to feelings of being "tired but wired" (Hegerl et al., 2017). This can manifest as hyperactivity, restlessness, or even lethargy, making it difficult to find that sweet spot of optimal alertness.

But it's not just about energy - motivation is a…

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